Death is the inevitable outcome of life, but ageing is a stage or phase of life, not an outcome. This failure to differentiate between ageing and age indicates a regression to concrete literal thinking. This kind of literal, concrete thinking is invariably the sign of an underlying anxiety, and it suggests a failure to be aware of the feelings that may lie behind, or beneath the concretisation. Such a lack of awareness results in poor differentiation of the process of ageing, or indeed any experience, and the end result is a simplistic, stereotyped perception that denies ambiguity and complexity. Thus age comes to equal frailty, sicness and death, not also wisdom, freedom and an opportunity for continuing development.
Peter A. O’Connor: Facing the Fifties: From Denial to Reflection. Allen & Unwin, 2000.
In life, the idea is to be happy. So I believe in calm, simple, low-profile life. You live simple, you train hard and live an honest life. Then you are free.
Eliud Kipchoge, Kenyan marathon runner
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A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say.
Italo Calvino (1923-1985)
People think they think but it’s not true. It’s mostly self criticism that passes for thinking.
Jordan B. Peterson: 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos.